How to Embrace What Really Matters [+Two Steps to Get You Started]

How do we embrace what really matters?

Such a simple but loaded question, right? It’s a question that has eternal repercussions, but also one we tend to brush aside for the immediate. The little fires. The thing [maybe all the things?] screaming for our attention all day long. It’s hard to hear anything else.

I’m hoping that deciding where to let go [week 1] and choosing to practice gratitude daily [week 2] helped pave a path through those little fires and quieted some of the things screaming for our attention. Even just a little.

Which brings us to week 3, this final week of the #soulmindbodyselfcare Reset, where we focus on embracing what really matters. I came across this verse last week and thought it would be fitting to share here:

Whoever wants to embrace life
    and see the day fill up with good,
Here’s what you do:
    Say nothing evil or hurtful;
Snub evil and cultivate good;
    run after peace for all you’re worth. 1 Peter 3:10 MSG

Back to the original question: how do we embrace what really matters? There is no right or wrong way, but here is one way you can do it. And it takes just two steps:

Step One: Spend some time determining what matters most in this season. Close the door, quiet all the voices, take out pen + paper and write them down. What is truly most important? Right now, right where you are?

Step Two: Decide on specific action steps to embrace those things. Perhaps one action step per thing? Or maybe you need to break down each action step into baby steps. Whatever works. Whatever allows you to take action, to take that first step.

One thing that matters most for me in this season is spending quality time with my kiddos. I spend all day with them, but I really want to s l o w down and focus in and memorize how they are right now. Because it’s all going by way too fast. And there will be plenty of time later for all.the.things. but the days I have with my kiddos won’t last forever (even if sometimes it feels like they will, ha).

So, one action step I’m taking to embrace this “important thing” is to read more with my kids. To put other things on a hold for a bit and sit down and read books. To bring out the Jesus Storybook Bible at breakfast and spend some time reading + discussing what we learn [they’re little brains are so smart! we have awesome conversations]. This is a great opportunity for me to invite them into my arms, into my space and spend quality time with them.


Thank you so much for joining me for this Reset! I’ve enjoyed it so much. It’s stretched me and grown me in a good way, as I hope it’s done for you.

And it doesn’t have to stop there! Every new day is a chance for a reset. A re-fresh, re-charge, re-commitment to what really matters.

Leave a comment if you have any questions for me! I’m here. You can catch me over on Instagram and if you’d like a little jumpstart to your self-care journey, grab my Top 10 Self-Care Tips here for free.

Until next time!

Let’s care for ourselves,

Hannah